Help and instructions

First register by filling out the free registration form. Once you are registered send an SMS with one of the commands below.

When a message asks you to REPLY then you should reply to the number that the message comes from. This number will usually be a 10 or 14 digit phone number.

While flirting with another member you must REPLY to the number that each flirt message comes from, else the flirt may be sent to the wrong person.

PROFILE

Send this command to view your profile.

FIND

Send this command to find a new flirt.

The profile of another member will be sent to your phone. You can start a flirt with that member by replying to the message.

FIND xxx xxx

Send the command FIND followed by an age and keywords in order to find a more specific match.

For example FIND FRIEND 25 or FIND DURBAN 20 25 or FIND SEXY CAPE TOWN or FIND WHITE PTA 23 29 or FIND GAY MALE 26 34

FIND NAME xxx

Send the command FIND NAME in order to find a member by their nickname. This is useful if you want to find someone that you have flirted with before.

For example send FIND NAME SAMMY in order to find a member named Sammy.

NO

Reply to any flirt message with the command NO in order to end the flirt.

STOP

Send this command in order to stop receiving messages from the service.

START

Send this command in order to start receiving messages again after having sent the command STOP.

HELP

Send this command in order to get help on how to find a flirt.

LIST

Send this command in order to get a list of all valid commands.

CHANGE NAME

Send this command in order to change your nickname.

You must REPLY to the next message with a new nickname.

CHANGE AGE

Send this command in order to change your age.

You must REPLY to the next message with a new age.

CHANGE SEX

Send this command in order to change your sex.

You must REPLY to the next message with a new sex.

CHANGE DESC

Send this command in order to change your description.

You must REPLY to the next message with a new description.

CHANGE PROVINCE

Send this command in order to change your province.

You must REPLY to the next message with a new province.

EXIT

Send this command in order to permanently delete your details.

You must REPLY to the next message with Y in order to confirm.

You can also send EXIT to 32016 (R1) to permanently delete your details in a single step.